“You hold everything together, except yourself”
“ You’re the woman everyone relies on.
It’s time to come home to the version of you that feels like you.”
“ You’re the woman everyone relies on.
It’s time to come home to the version of you that feels like you.”

The Energetic Leadership Codes, is a 12-week journey from depletion to embodied leadership, through energy, emotional fitness, and identity realignment. This is not about doing more. It’s about becoming more you.
I see, hear and acknowledge where you currently are
You’ve always been the strong one.
The one who shows up.
The one who absorbs the emotional load.
The one who keeps going, even when your energy has left the room.
But lately, you’ve been feeling stretched thin.
Disconnected.
Like you’re functioning on autopilot.
This isn’t burnout. It’s an identity that no longer fits.
And you’re not alone.
The Identity Bridge
This isn’t about doing more.
It’s about becoming more you.
You’ll gently cross the bridge from survival mode to embodied leadership through:
What Makes This Different?
This is not a hustle program.
It’s a reclamation.
Most programs teach you how to push harder.
This one teaches you how to come home to yourself.
You’ll be supported through:
The Energetic Leadership Codes is a 12-week identity realignment for high performing women in healthcare who are ready to stop leading from depletion and start leading from alignment.
Identity expansion is emotional, and you won’t walk it alone.
By the end of this journey, you will:
You’ll become the woman you were before exhaustion took over and more.
Who is it for?
The woman everyone relies on.
You’re the kind of woman who:
You might be a:
If you’re ready to stop abandoning yourself and start leading from your aligned energy, this journey is for you.

“I was running on empty. Anxious. Overthinking. Disconnected from myself. Life felt like a blur, and I had no clarity on what needed to change or how to begin.”
Through Valerie’s guidance, using the Extended DISC® and Emotional Fitness Formula™, I uncovered the core patterns driving my behaviour and reconnected with my values. For the first time in years, I felt calm, clear, and capable of making aligned choices instead of reacting on autopilot.
Now I feel like a different person, grounded, energised, and deeply connected to myself. I’ve rediscovered joy, creativity, and self-care. My identity no longer revolves around work. Valerie created a space where I felt truly seen and safe to grow. If you’re ready to return to the version of you that feels like home, she’s the guide you want beside you.”
Llana C

“I was tired, fatigued, and burnt out and I didn’t know why. I was showing up for everyone else but losing myself in the process.
Working with Valerie helped me understand my natural energy and how I was overriding it. Through Extended DISC® and coaching, I learned to honour my own rhythm, communicate more clearly, and stop absorbing what wasn’t mine.
I feel more energised, balanced, and self-aware. I’m taking better care of myself — and my relationships have improved too. Valerie is intuitive, compassionate, and deeply wise. If you’re approaching burnout, she’ll help you come back to yourself.”
Thank you, Valerie. I look forward to working with you again.
Liz Ross - Relationship Coaching, Lake Macquarie NSW Australia

“I spent years questioning whether my natural energy was real or just a trauma response. I was constantly second-guessing myself, wondering if I was too much.
Extended DISC® made the energetic pieces of me tangible. For the first time, I could see my D and I energy clearly, not as something to fix, but something to trust. It gave me permission to stop performing and start honouring who I’ve always been.
Now I fully trust my natural leadership energy. I no longer shrink to be acceptable. I lead from my core, not from fear. That shift has changed everything.”
Dr Caroline Carpenter - Speaker | Author | Health + Linguistic Expert - The Soul - Full Way

“I didn’t realise how much energy I was wasting trying to be everything to everyone. I was working hard, but not in alignment with what came naturally to me.
Through our sessions, I discovered what energises me and what drains me. Valerie helped me see my strengths clearly and apply them in everyday life, especially in how I communicate and lead.
Now I understand how to work with my energy, not against it. I feel more confident, more efficient, and more myself.”
Magdalena Eckardt - Shellharbour NSW Australia

“I struggled to understand dominant personalities. I found it hard to speak up, especially in the workplace. I didn’t know how to navigate people who felt overwhelming to me.
Valerie helped me understand my own communication style and how to adapt without losing myself. I realised that some of my past roles didn’t suit my energy and that was the source of my stress.
Now I choose environments that align with who I am. I feel more confident, less anxious, and more empowered to lead in my own way. Valerie helped me see that I don’t have to change who I am, I just have to honour it.
Valerie is passionate about people and will gladly support you in understanding yourself better.”
Priscilla Williams

“I was struggling to express myself clearly and connect with others in a way that felt natural. I knew I needed a better framework for understanding myself and the people around me.
Valerie’s Extended DISC® unpack gave me language for my energy. I could finally see how I operate, and how others do too. That changed how I lead, how I communicate, and how I show up in relationships.
Now I feel more equipped to lead with clarity and compassion. I understand my needs and the needs of others. Valerie’s passion and insight made this process feel safe, empowering, and deeply personal.
Thank you again for your tremendous help, the Extended DISC® unpack has been really helpful for me.”
Carel Van Apeldoorn - Entrepreneurial Coach, in Taipei, Taiwan


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